Girls, Don't Move Down!

I don't know but recently I saw girls that still can't accept the facts that everything is over. They're no other than my chingus (friends). Sedih. Ada yang masih tinggal dalam memori silam. Dan ada juga yang masih cuba mengejar sesuatu yang tidak berbaloi untuk di kejar. Girls, I saw you as my sisters. I know its hard. When you're loving and hoping for someone but then he left. STOP clinging onto guys that never know how to appreciate you girls. You deserves someone better than that.

I am not good either since I never experienced having relationships for more than two years so I never know how that feeling grows. I might be have a feeling like you too if I'm in your shoes but please, jangan tunjuk sangat awak sedang kejar dia. Just let him go. He will come back someday if Allah stated that he's your mate. But before that day comes, please don't put him deep in your heart. Throw him away and let just Allah be there. Insyaallah you will feel better. Don't have hope on people, but have hope on that person's creator (Allah SWT). STOP doing things that make you think of him but do things that makes you closer to HIM. STOP sending messages to him but do send your du'a to Allah. STOP remembering him every night in your dreams, but instead, let HIM (Allah) take over him from your heart and mind. Just STOP GIRL.

You may think that everything he does is just an act, to see how strong and loyal you are. But if he really do loves you, he will NEVER hurt you. NEVER. Didn't you think that Allah wants you to let him go for a while? or maybe HE wants to tell you that he isn't for you so just let him be. Positive thinking is good but in this case, positive thinking about the bad things that he does to you and all the harsh words that he said to you isn't the right thing. Its just a sign that might not meant for you.

Before loving and hoping on others, do love yourself and Allah first. Insyaallah, the happiness will be yours. Only He knows when the time will come but trust me, Janji Allah itu PASTI =)